Weekend Summary

(Slight bit of sex-talk, FYI)

I just want to sort of summarize this past weekend.

I had a pretty decent birthday.  Not many people showed up to my drive-in party, but I’m not particularly surprised.  I know my “circle of friends” has dwindled drastically in the past three years.  It ended up pretty much just being four of us (Me, Army, Texas, and her boyfriend) for the whole two movies. My mother and one of my brothers popping in for a bit to see the first one. 

There was a lot of food thrown at me during the day.  That was hard to deal with.  Mom insisted on taking me out to breakfast and I struggled with looking like I ate more than a couple mouthfuls.  For an early dinner (I skipped lunch), I went out with Texas and the boys to a local Turkish restaurant that I really like.  And I was completely suckered in by the lamb chops I ordered.  But I skipped most of the appetizer and didn’t eat any of the cupcakes I baked for the drive-in.  I was good.

I felt awkward in the dress I wore, since it was shorter and clingier than I tend to wear. Though everyone said they liked it.  Texas’ boyfriend actually made a weirdly big deal out of complimenting me which felt strange. 

The movies were both good (Iron Man 3 and Oz). 

Army was very affectionate almost the whole time.  Total surprise since he’s not normally like that at all.  Even at the drive-in when there were a bunch of people around.  He’s told me in the past that he doesn’t like “PDA”.  Then he came home with me and spent the night. 

The sex was decent that night, but I think I was sort of withdrawing and worried it would be like Thursday night’s.  But Sunday morning I got a real bday present of my first oral-based orgasm.  I should probably mention that I’m a big fan of morning sex, so that probably made a big difference.  That and he just really…really…really wouldn’t give up.  It was different, but not bad I guess. I dunno.  I’m sort of unnerved by it.

He left pretty soon after that and I went to Mom’s for a bit to check on Zoe and puppies, who she pet-sat for me on Saturday so I wouldn’t have to worry about them.  The puppies are so very happy to run around her backyard.  It’s cute.  They also took a nap with me in the sunny grass, which was nice.

Today I’m feeling a wicked cold coming on (which I am thankful that it skipped my bday plans) and I’m mad at myself for missing Army a lot.  Well, not really for missing him.  I’ve done that before.  But for texting him and outlining more emotionally that he spoiled me these past couple days and that I wish I had a birthday more often so I could actually get that sort of attention from him more frequently.

I hate admitting that sort of need.

His response was actually sweet though.  He said he’s going to try and be closer to me in general from now on.  I think I like that idea.  I think.

We’ll see.

17 thoughts on “Weekend Summary

  1. Mental Mama

    I’m really glad to hear you had such a good time for your birthday. Being closer to Army could prove to be a really good thing. Just try and keep an open mind. 🙂

    1. Pen Post author

      I know, I know….doing my best 😛

      I know he means well and I’m hoping it can be something good for longer than one day.

    1. Pen Post author

      Thank you 🙂

      The trick is whether he’ll continue to show it. He’s done the whole 180 degree turn of intent before.

  2. Bourbon

    Yay for a good birthday with some close friends. That is all I am looking for this year. Will probably just be me and a couple of other people too. I hope the cold isn’t too bad. Loving watching the puppies grow 🙂 xx

    1. Pen Post author

      I was going to message you on FB and tell you that I dreamed about you last night! It was about you and WeeGee coming over to my old house and we had this elaborate tea party.
      It was weird.
      My mind is strange.

      Close friend bdays are actually pretty good. This one was better than some I’ve had where there were a bunch of people I didn’t know well.

      1. Bourbon

        Tea party?? Sounds fab, when shall we come 😉 Was it a happy time in the dream?

      2. Pen Post author

        It was!
        Your faces kept shifting around and such, but not in a creepy way. Just in a “I’ve-not-met-you-in-person-so-I-don’t-exactly-know-what-you-look-like-since-pictures-aren’t-a-totally-accurate-rendition” way.

        But both of you looked very lovely, even with your specific features being a bit indecisive.

        Also Raggy and Zoe got along great! 🙂 Though Raggy kept changing sizes. My subconscious was having some real visual issues. Lol.

        Shall we say Friday around tea time? Though being completely American, I have no idea when “tea time” is. Something like mid-afternoon, right?

      3. Bourbon

        Lol that is so funny I actually laughed out loud. Just picturing my face shimmying about and Raggy growing then shrinking again like something out of Alice in Wonderland lol. Just a thought, perhaps my features doing the all-change every now and again signifies the switching as well?! So really your unconscious was being very clever! Friday sounds good, though I’ve got my godson that night so prepare for mayhem in your house lol xox

      4. Pen Post author

        Godson is welcomed! I shall make sure the crumpets and cookies aren’t too strange for him 😉

        Oooh, good point about the switching. I didn’t think about that.

        Hopefully WeeG can make it too. She seems very busy lately (in a good way, I think) 🙂

  3. Grainne

    Well…*coughs* yay for the oral? I Know that’s crass but I kinda cheered in my head for you when I read that. New, personal, pleasurable experiences are good to collect. 🙂 lol…sorry, sorry… the rest was great too. Happy Belated. xx

    1. Pen Post author

      Haha, that’s fair. I was happy it finally happened. I’m sort of embarrassed to be in my mid-twenties, (extremely) sexually active, and yet just had this happen for the first time.
      But from what I’ve read and heard from other women, it’s my probably various partners’ fault, not mine.

      Thank you ❤


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